Why did my crush like me for only two days in a row?
10.06.2025 01:50
The hugging, flirting, kissing an telling you I like you so much, then out of no where takes you some place, says I'm sorry, it isn't going to work out .
Your clothes, getting to know your mind, heart triggers him with being turned off, wants someone that's more ideal to what he wants in a partner, which is why I tell myself, other women to stay strong, accept the rejection even when it hurts but to not be weak, be a doormat and try to change or change him. I think you need to look at you, figure out exactly what you want in a partner, be friends with the guy, know him or date around but keep it reserved, friendly but not in a sensual way to where you feel used by having sex.
It isn't fair that I, others have to suffer ,which is why be happy that he dumped you. You're not his type, so why would you even want that?! Just think if you did, trying to change yourself to please him Instead of trying to figure yourself out, what I like an really what makes me happy.
Pretty kooky, weird crazy talk but it's legit, genuine talk.
This isn't your problem to blame, he made that desiscion dump you, now you're grieving, others are affected an grieving to from it.
An really that's hard to do, really you could do it this way if you don't wanna be open seeing others because of being jealous, having trust issues. The best course of action is to stick with one guy, see how you can connect, then break it off if you believe it's not going to work.
You feel used, lead on an maybe even confused as well as being hurt. Now you're in denial, wondering what did I do?! You find out that latching on could make it worse by trying to fix it, then come to find out a new girl is in the picture, he cheated on you or never wants to see you, probably bash talking you, hurting your confidence by making you believe I'm ugly, really you're not. It's just him wanting you to let go, he already let you go.
You want someone that's decisive that knows what he wants in love, treats you good. Someone where you get along, enjoy each other's company, love every minute being together. You want someone who's a leader that's not easily influenced by others telling you what to do, pushing you off the cliff. Someone that hits you, bullies you,annoys you who doesn't respect you isn't someone you want.
Anyways, to spiritually heal myself. I bought flowers for Bernadette the saint, gratitude to Jesus ghost, the Virgin Mary's ghost since I'm psychic.
But anyways, leave him alone. He's immature, couldn't handle you if he did. It would be short lived anyways.
An..it's not just with females, it's applies to guys too. You believe that I can change, I can fix it. But then you find out it can't be fixed, now you're heart broken.
It has happen where a guy says I love your looks but I hate your heart. I don't get the third eye, but I like your sarcastic humor. You see what I'm saying?! Some people are just picky, want a steady, easy compatible relationship, just go with the flow and just be happy together.
Your clothes, music an temperament isn't exactly what I'm expecting with going out with. Now you're degraded, embarrass because you believe someone wanted you, all of a sudden he doesn't. You spent all this time, effort an then find out it's not going to work out.
Because not everything is clicking, which is why it dissolved for some kinda reason. There's something about you that captures him, then all of a sudden it just stopped. I've had that happen to me many times, boy does it hurt. You fall so hard for someone, the reason is him wanting you, then after a couple of days it's like I lost interest, decided to change my mind.
But I'm really sorry he's a jerk for dropping you but really he isn't because he did you a favor. He set you free, helped release you instead of abusing you, treating you badly .
Once you learn to accept, love yourself you'll be able to let others in, let them respect, love you as well. It has to be mutual to love each other. Which is why if you're in a one sided selfish relationship, you're better off alone, finding someone else . Instead of making a mockery out of it, until karma hits, wow I just fucked up.
Angela
You want someone that's happy with less baggage, doesn't have serious issues in life . It's not fair to you, me an others to be treated poorly because of the ex or some kinda influence that broke it's heart or did stuff that made the guy become a jerk. Some people do end up with someone, been with each other for so long , the romance never developed, was in a abusive relationship. Because of this baggage, issues it's like they've grown onto it, believe that's how it is, how to live by.
Why do you allow your cat to lie in bed with you?
But the ones to do love you, are kind and let you in are the ones you should provide, listen and cater and care for.
Be one track minded, Instead of being a mess with seeing more then one person. What happens if if you're open you might miss out on me right, mr. Right already left you bc you're seeing other people. You're label a hoe, that's not what you want , especially if you're trying to find the one .
When your morals, your upbringing doesn't exactly match his. Now you're suffering because you don't get this kinda environment of developing, growing into. Youre so use to what you know, how you're raised. Which is why I tell people, even myself to stick to your morals, beliefs, try to make yourself notice, be true to yourself. Even if that means becoming a bitch, having your guard up. It's not fair if you're mushy buying flowers, cooking dinner and treating a guy like a king, then find out he could never be selfless, be considerate, be thoughtful to your heart, listen to your mind, love your body, looks at the same time.
Why does Africa have all mineral resources but she is suffering economically?
Love,
Which is why family, friends are important, to love others, treat people with respect. Because I'll tell you what, one of these days you're in a rut or stuck, need help and someone might not care, actually help you, show up. You pushed away all the good people, kept the bad, got screwed over bc you chose the bad.
Which is why someone thats self destructive who's bringing you down, isn't someone you want. So..anyways, I would let him go. It’s worse if you had kids or had some reason why you have to cling on. Now you have to share the kid, be in each other's life and raise it seperate. An it hurts, especially when it found someone else, you have kids together. There's a sense of insecurity, maybe even jealousy bc of carrying it's kid, wishing the marriage didn't end.